Sunday 20 December 2015

My Bangalore..My people...


my place#Bangalore#myheaven#mypeeps#besttimes




               I always wondered, what is so much in a place to have a deep attachment to it. There was no other place where my heart desires to be in. There was never another place which felt so heart warming. BANGALORE.. You are jut amazing. The sun, the cold wind, the rain, the drizzle.. I love each and everything in you. You transformed the whole me.
         
          The most beautiful time in my life was when i was here. Today I am back here rejoicing those moments, I am lucky enough to be here with some beautiful people to have a time for me to treasure. Back here are the roads we went, the places we hanged out, the same food we had, the streets we walked, the nights we drove long without any destination.. Yeah.. it was these people who made Bangalore so special for me. I love you this place and i love you people for making the ME in myself.

          If ever i have a chance,i will find a way back to this place. Just to live that life..once more..

Thursday 12 November 2015

Beautiful People


The most beautiful people I have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These guys have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen, they are created.


Monday 9 November 2015

#positivevibes# getstrong#happiness#adventure#lovemylife#



          Taking an adventure is something to be appreciated. A true adventure is not paragliding or scuba diving or climbing a mountain so high.. It's the decision to throw away something precious which you where holding on for so long or leaving a so called "white collar job" to achieve a passion or leaving everything u ever wanted,just  to achieve a dream. The world will give you endless advices. But go on with what your heart desires. Nobody is going to live your life,it's only YOU. Sometimes the strange ways leads to the most happiest end.Just believe it. There is no point in holding on the pain. Your life is meant to be lived in your own way. Let someone out there know that you existed on this planet...

Wednesday 4 November 2015

Dear Friend,


My Dear friend,
with each time I walk away
I feel a slice of pain
I can see you drowning in puns and sarcasm
I can hear you crying behind each word you say
I can smell the salt on your face from miles away
I can feel the anxiety bottled inside of you
I want to reach out
I want to help you
I want to tell you that everything will be okay
I want you to trust me
Trust that I won’t spill your dirty secrets
Or nights of sorrows
That I won’t speak a word about the monsters bottled in your hollows
Or tell you that your emotions are bullshit
Because, you see, we are much similar than we appear to be
There are also monsters nesting inside of me
Creeping and crawling in the cracks in me
Telling me that I am stupid
That I am no good
That I am useless.
So while I cannot be the perfect person to help you
Let it be known that if you need me, I will be there to help
I will be there to comfort you
To give you humour, hugs and kisses.
To give you your favourite cup of tea
To give you a basketful of love
I know the world is not perfect, so are we
I know our demons will not simply fade away
But if I must say this once, I will say it twice
No matter what the battle is, no matter the struggle is
Everything Will be alryt and I will always be there for you - as a friend !! or maybe something more - a companion ...

with tons of love,
Vj

Tuesday 3 November 2015

Reincarnation.. #being me#awakening#kickstart#



The stories about reincarnation was always a topic of my interest. But it's something surprising to have a rebirth in the same life. An ordinary person, whom I never marked as so "IMPORTANT" fled away all the fear and uncertainties I faced. This is a kick start... Every bad day I came across in life just blessed me. No more time for what displeases me. I released the grip to hold tight and now the blisters are healed. I was not wandering, I was searching for this to happen to me. The world in front of me has a wild glee now. I am here to create a mark in this world. Let my future thank me for this.

I am AWAKENED...

Friday 16 October 2015

Incredible India !!!



I'm Indian. Just Indian. I'm not south Asian any  than Russians are north Asian.

I'm not ASIAN Indian or EAST Indian. There are one point three billion of us - we don’t need a cardinal direction, OK? It’s not our fault that Christopher Columbus got lost.
Sure, we love our states, but there’s strength in numbers - one out of every six human beings is Indian, so stop dividing us. The British already did that - once.
And we need to quit saying that we're not Indian because I wasn’t born here or sound like this or eat that. Our HEARTS are Indian.
We are feelers. We gave the world the romance of Bollywood films and the music of Ravi Shankar and Zubin Mehta, Lata Mangeshkar and Asha Bhosle, A R Rahman and Illayaraja and the allure of the Kama Sutra.
We are thinkers. We are great at math because we INVENTED numbers. And we're pretty good at letters, too. We are doctors and engineers and techies. And we mean business: We're the world’s third largest economy and the wealthiest ethnic group in America.
We are huge and efficient - India is all on one time zone. That way, everybody in the country is still late - but at the same time. We never invade anyone because we already have everything: chess, the ruler, the button, wireless communication, arranged marriage, flush toilets, steel, DEMOCRACY - all us, all India.
And you're welcome, world, for yoga, and elevating cricket into a multi-billion dollar sport, and making food so good that you sailed across the planet to come have some.
Our food is hot. Our country is hot. Our women are hot. Our men are... Lucky?
Where the world prays, we meditate. We practically invented religious tolerance and we gave you Mahatma Gandhi and pundits and gurus and karma and dharma and kismet and reincarnation. The motherland is magical and mystical. And no matter who you are, you can find yourself here… In Incredible India. Jai Hind!

This is my Tribute to one of the greatest Indians of all time, the one who has inspired the youth of India through his words, thoughts and power. The man who wanted us to Dream for the greater heights, the one who told us we need difficulties in life to enjoy the joy of success. The man who wanted us to make mistakes and learn from it. The missile man of India, the former President of India - the one who inspired millions, the one who worked for the million - Mr. APJ Abdul Kalaam. For you dear sir, I will be the change that I wish the world to be... That is my way of paying respect to you,sir. May your soul rest in peace.

Wednesday 14 October 2015

Love !

Love is not always perfect. 
It is not always a fairytale storybook.
Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together,  holding on and never letting go. 
It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without. Love is work,dedication and staying true to yourself but most of all, love is realizing that every hour  every minute and every second was worth it because we did it TOGETHER  !!!

lets make it work together.

Photo has been taken from internet. 

Saturday 3 October 2015

Syrian Refugee Crisis

In summer of 2015, EU experienced the biggest influx of refugees since WW2. Why? because Syria has become the worlds largest source of refugees. Syria is located in the middle east, an ancient fertile land settled for at least 10,000 years. Since 1960 it has been led by the al-Assad family. It was a quasi dictatorship kind of democracy. During the spring, there were massive outbreaks and protests which led to the fall of many of the authoritarian regimes but the Assad refused to step down and started the most brutal civil war of the era. Syria is a place with different ethnicities and religious groups they fought each other during this changing coalitions. ISIS, a militaristic jihadist group used this an opportunity and entered this chaos with an ultimate motive to create a totalitarian Islamic caliphate. Very soon it became a very successful violent extremist organisation on Earth. This did not stop both the sides from committing to horrible war crimes, using chemical weapons, mass execution, torture on large scale and repeated deadly attacks on the innocent civilians. The Syrians were trapped in between the regime, rebel groups and the religious extremists. Over 4 million Syrians were displaced and seeked refugee in the camps of the neighbouring countries like Iraq, Egypt and Turkey - who are taking in almost 95 percent of the refugees. While the Arab countries of the Persian gulf closed their doors to them and accepted zero Syrian refugees. This gesture has been termed as greatly shameful by Amnesty International. No one was prepared for this even the UN and the world food program. They were not equipped for a refugee crisis of this scale.So, many refugee camps were over crowded and under-supplied. Cold, hunger and diseases were by products of these. They lost hope that things will get better for them any time soon. So many decided to take asylum in Europe. Between 2007 and 2014, EU has invested billions in weapons, defence systems and border patrols but not enough prep for the influx of refugees. As per EU, a refugee has to stay in the state they arrive in first. Which put enormous pressure in the border states that were already in trouble. Greece, who was in the midst of the economic crisis in the scale of Great Depression was not able to take care of so many people at once. the world needed to come together and act as one instead they became divided. Many states downright refused to take in any of the refugees, leaving the border states to struggle alone. Mare- Nostrum was a search and rescue mission deployed by the UK government to prevent people from drowning in the Mediterranean. the idea was solid at the time as the number of people braving the open sea would be few but in reality it was chaos. The perception of the entire crisis changed by  a photo - a photo that went viral and shook many hearts.The photo of an innocent Syrian boy lying face down in a Turkish beach. Germany proclaims that they will accept all Syrian Refugees and is preparing to accept 80000 by 2015 which was more than what the EU did 2014. it proved to be a nightmare and they had to shut down their borders. They then demanded EU for a wider solution. Over at the west more and more civilians supported the refugees through supplies like food, medicine and other materials. Most of the support only came for concerned citizen and not from any politicians. There are also concerns in the west about Islam, high birth rates and crime may collapse the social systems. Lets take this account and look at the facts. Lets assume that EU would accept the entire Syrian refugee's of about 4 million people this would only result in a rise of Muslim population from 4% to 5%.
This is not a drastic change and would definitely not make it a Muslim continent. Muslim minority is neither new nor to be afraid of. In some part of the population is low, so, they fear that the refuges's might overtake the natives. Birth rates, they are higher but they gradually drop as the standard of living and education increases. In Syria, the birth rates were going on a decline. As most of the Syrian nationals are educated. The fear of crime rates can also be dealt with this, the probability of an immigrant committing a crime is less than that of the native. Given an opportunity to work, they would start a business and integrate strongly in the work force of the society and in turn contributes to the societies welfare. The west badly needs professionals to sustain the Europe's ageing population. Another point made is those who carry smartphone does not need to be given refuge. Smartphone's are a way to guide them to a refuge camp with social media giving tips and rel time information. Would we loose our smartphone if we are to undertake a dangerous journey ahead with no idea of what is going to happen. ? It just proves they are like us, humans.EU is the wealthiest bunch in the world with well organised states functioning social systems, well laid out democracy and huge industries. It can handle the  challenge of refugee crisis with ease if it chose to. The same can be said about the entire western countries. While the tiny Jordan has taken over 600000 refugees. UK with 78 times the GDP of Jordan has said they will only allow 20000 across its borders over the next five years. US has agreed to accept 10000 and Australia 12000 people. Overall, things are getting better but the rate is not fast enough. We are the ones who are writing history now, let us be known as the people who opened their doors to people in shelters than the guys who hid behind the fences. We have to realise they are people who are fleeing from, death, destruction. These are people who are giving away everything they worked and lived for so that they can just be alive with the hope of a better future. They are people like us, accepting them into the society makes us richer and stronger. Its time to act and let us be the reason for someone else's smile. Let us unite and pray for the lost souls and extend a helping hand to the needy.


There are many organisation trying to meet the ends to provide support for the affected, those who want can help. The websites and the organisations helping can be found in Google or you can simply donate or volunteer for UN.

*PS: this is just my interpretation. I haven no intend of hurting anyone and this is just my personal opinion. Majority of the content and facts have been taken from a video i happen to watch about this and felt people should know what is happening around them.

Wednesday 3 June 2015

Quiet Moment !

Quiet Moment !

In your quiet moments, what do you think about?  How far you’ve come, or how far you have to go?  Your strengths, or your weaknesses?  The best that might happen, or the worst that might come to be?  In your quiet moments, pay attention to your thoughts.  Because maybe, just maybe, the only thing that needs to shift in order for you to experience more happiness, more love, and more vitality, is your way of thinking.

Monday 13 April 2015

the MOON .

The moon is a loyal companion.
It never leaves. It’s always there, watching, steadfast, knowing us in our light and dark moments, changing forever just as we do. Every day it’s a different version of itself. Sometimes weak and wan, sometimes strong and full of light. The moon understands what it means to be human.
Uncertain. Alone. Cratered by imperfections.

Saturday 21 March 2015

the PRESENT !




the PRESENT !
As the dust settled, the lights faded, the roads became deserted. There i stood at a single point watching the transformation at NH 46 . A street lamp, a scooter, music and a glass of tea - thats all i had !!! as the Winds were caressing my face, the sky was pitch black like my mind ! Moon was nowhere to be found so was the answers to many of my questions. As the songs in my playlist shuffled so did the thoughts in my mind but then there were these few minutes where i was blank like the deserted highway !!! I was living in the present for those few minutes. I was not thinking about the past nor the future but just living in the present and i finally got a taste of what it feels like to live in the present !!! I enjoyed the dust settling down, i enjoyed each and every sip of that tea, i enjoyed the smell of air, i enjoyed the sight of moving lights, i enjoyed the blankness of the sky, i enjoyed the lyrics of my song and at that moment i felt everything connected to me, as if they were all revolving around me. As if the world was revolving around me. To sum it all - i enjoyed THE PRESENT !!!


Note: we are all consumed by the past and the future that we forget that the present exist. By the time that realization comes the present will be the new past. So, Live in the present and seize the moment - Carpe Diem !!! Enjoy the present cause at the end thats all that matters !!!

Thursday 26 February 2015

Let her shine !!!

The following is an introduction i wrote for a friends program, the theme was female foeticide.
Why are you doing this !? Wat crime did she do to you, to deserve this. By committing this murder you are robbing her of her childhood, her dreams and her right to this beautiful world. Let her enjoy a walk in the rain, see the clear blue skies, the colours of a rainbow, the evergreen mountains, travel through the winding roads and enjoy a sky full of stars. What if your parents have done this to you ? Would u have had this light !? Would you have existed ? Doesnt she deserve a chance to grow stronger from her mistakes, to chase her dreams and to enjoy the gifts of nature. Let her be the dreamer of improbable dreams and the hoper of far flung hopes. Let her be everything you could not ! Give her a chance. Let her shine !! 

Sunday 22 February 2015

Succes

He has achieved success who has 
        lived well, laughed often, and loved much;
Who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children;
Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
Who has never lacked appreciation of Earth's beauty or failed to express it;
Who has left the world better than he found it,
Whether an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul;
Who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had;
Whose life was an inspiration;
Whose memory a benediction.

-Vj

Tuesday 3 February 2015

Life

When we look outside and beyond ourselves, it's amazing how irrelevant our lives become. Nothing makes sense but on the other hand, everything seems simple and heartfelt. Life has a way of playing tricks on us, it shows us who we are and what we are made of. Playing with our emotions, requiring us to discover the journey ahead, and in some moments, unanticipated silence. On occasion, life fails to make sense and that idea seems alright as well. The insights we get from what we have been through so far, gives more meaning to life than anything else. However, everyone needs some sort of encouragement to keep moving forward, and find the calmness and freedom they've always dreamed of. I have found that reading or listening to quotes on life, it doesn't matter what situation you are in, it works in a positive and inspirational way.
 Encourage yourself to reach for your dreams and aspirations, because any change in your life will test you till your last breath. So give it a good fight with your head held high. 

Live life to the fullest !!!

Wednesday 21 January 2015

This is LIFE !!!

This is life. People will screw you over. You'll fight with your family. You'll witness things that will change you forever. You'll blame new lovers for things the old lovers did. You'll loose your best friends you thought would always be there. You'll come to realise that everyone has a past. You'll cry, you'll laugh and you'll embarass yourself. But you'll find your very own moment where none of that matters. Where you can sit back and realize that crap happens to only those who can handle it and that is who you are, and that no one should want to change you, including yourself.

Tuesday 13 January 2015