Let her shine !!!

The following is an introduction i wrote for a friends program, the theme was female foeticide.

Why are you doing this !? Wat crime did she do to you, to deserve this. By committing this murder you are robbing her of her childhood, her dreams and her right to this beautiful world. Let her enjoy a walk in the rain, see the clear blue skies, the colours of a rainbow, the evergreen mountains, travel through the winding roads and enjoy a sky full of stars. What if your parents have done this to you ? Would u have had this light !? Would you have existed ? Doesnt she deserve a chance to grow stronger from her mistakes, to chase her dreams and to enjoy the gifts of nature. Let her be the dreamer of improbable dreams and the hoper of far flung hopes. Let her be everything you could not ! Give her a chance. Let her shine !! 

I am a fighter !!!!

I’ve endured this discomfort before and survived it. SO, I can survive today.

I’ve felt these feelings before and sat with them, and SO i can sit with them today.

I’ve felt like giving in before and held onto HOPE, SO i can continue to hold on today.

I’ve made it through yesterday, and SO i can  also make it through today.

I can do it.

I will do it.

I am doing it.

I am strong and i am capable. I will not GIVE UP.

I am stronger than my Problems.

I am a FIGHTER !!!

-Vj

Soul Mates - Bob Marley

Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.

- Bob Marley

To Let Go .

To let go is not to forget, not to think about or ignore. It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy or regret. Letting go isn't abt winning or loosing. Its not about pride and its not about how you appear and its not obsessing or dwelling in the past. Letting go is not blocking memories or sad thoughts and doesn't leave emptiness, sadness and hurt. Its not about giving up or giving in. Letting go is not about loosing and its not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on. Its about having an open Mind in the future. Letting go is learning, experiencing and growing. To let go is thankful for the experience that made you laugh, made you cry and made you grow. Its about all that you have and all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept the change and the strength to keep moving.


 

Letting go .

letting go is growing up. !!!

Insanity !!!

It should go like this.. Insanity is the inability to communicate your ideas. It's as if you are in a foreign country, able to see and understand everything that's going on around you but incapable of explaining what you need to know or of being helped, because you don't understand the language they speak there. We've all felt that. And all of us, one way or another, are insane.

-Vj

Love !!!

Love is a magical thing. No sane, practical, realistic,mature  person had ever fall in love. Love is about believing, about fighting against the odds, finding happines in the smallest things nd being there fr one another and braving this nasty world together. Love is a journey not a destination. It cant be forced, it will happen and it can never leave.

be crazy, believe in miracles and magics and most importantly fall in LOVE.

-Vj